It sounds like its time to try and let it go and move on mate. The only reason I say this is the fact that she has mentioned that it maybe best if you spend less time together. This means that she can see how badly you have fallen, and she doesn't want to hurt you. Maybe she just doesn't feel the same way. But at the same time, I really think you need to talk to her. Going by what friends say, or what she has said to them won't help you, it will just confuse you more. She may not of ment what she said in the way that you read it. I say, as your there and this could be the last time you see