Stacey's turn..... Its obvious from whats happened that she really is in love with this other dude. Its a known fact, that alot of girls like the boys who treat them like dirt. Because they like having to chase them. (Fuk knows why). These girls are normally the 'Barbie dolls'. The more plain girls, love any one who will love them back. And the mingers will just love anything! (Only kidding!) I would stay well clear of her now. Its sweet that you care about her, and want her to know whats going on but she will think your telling her just to break them up. I was well into this guy a few years back, and we were on and off for years. He got with this other girl, who cheated on him with my best friend so I told him. He believed me at first then believe all her lies and I haven't spoken to him since. I think you should just not talk to her, or text her any more. If she contacts you, ignore it. She needs to see what this other bloke is like, and no doubt she will find this out soon enough. When she does, she will probs text you but you need to move on and have fun with your mates. Get pies elsewhere. Its the best thing to do! Josie - Paul sounds like my ex from when I was your age. As soon as he had a car, he didnt want to know. He would have different girls in his car every night, and most were ho's to be honest. I know it hurts but your young and your best leaving him be. He will soon get bored without you. Don't chase him around, he is just not worth it. Your a pretty girl and can do much better!