STARLET88 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 whats her reasons 4 not wanting you ????or whats made all this happen ?? Quote
jeppo Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 she sed shes not happy but wotn evan give me the chans to tri make her Quote
jayep91 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 go out spend some time with your mates dude clear your head abit and never tell her you put this topic on here i wouldnt think she would like it Quote
STARLET88 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 right so you just need to get to the bottom of why shes not happy.. if she has a heart at all she deserves you that much... try saying ok i except that you dont want to be with me but at least you can tell me why so i dont make the same mistakes again! that you deservew that much .. then what ever she shouts at you no matter what dont fight back.. take it in go away think about it.. then ask us! Quote
jeppo Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 the way shes beeing i just dont no wether to keep trying or give up she is beeing so cold about it but im hurting nd she dotn seem to be botherd Quote
STARLET88 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 the way shes beeing i just dont no wether to keep trying or give up she is beeing so cold about it but im hurting nd she dotn seem to be botherdthats what we do tho, thats what we do best. Quote
jeppo Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 i no but its so hard shes just told me ive blew it and she dont cer anymore Quote
STARLET88 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Oh dear that sounds like thats something thats been building up over time.You didnt do anything to make her snap? Quote
jeppo Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 the break up started because she wanted t ogo out with her m8s on new yer and i wanted to spend it together that was 7 days ago nd after 6 days off her being cold i hit the bottle nd ended up smashing a door up Quote
STARLET88 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 maybe she felt that u didnt give her enough space? i dont no likei said just try n get out ov her what u have done then you can either tell her to stuff it or make your wrongs right! Quote
jeppo Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 I've scerd her by smashign the door up nd sed that was the last straw im not a vilent person this was a one off alot of tenshion building up Quote
StarletMad Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Step up to the plate yourself... Sounds like shes very much in control at the moment lol!Start going out with ya mates .... then she'll wonder what your up to all the time lol Quote
SCOTTIX Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 dont go smothering her ,giv her space ,prepare for the worst because it hits u hard when your expecting it to go your way ( and it dont ). take it slow when communicating Quote
jeppo Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 its alredy hit me hard i no its sopy but i love her its been 5 yers and im not redy to give up id feel beter if i new she was upset asmuch as i am Quote
The_Notorious_C_A_T Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Only thing you can do is leave her alone a little to get her head round things. Also you should obviously do the same.You have to make her know you're sorry and it was a total freak occurance although since you've been together for so long she should know it was, but don't bombard her to much, but make sure she keeps it in mind if you get me.Sometimes things don't work out though, I know it's hard as we've all been there. If that is the case the sooner you come to terms with it the better. Don't want to sound negative but you have to consider the possibility, as only she can forgive you and sometimes no matter what you do it might not change things, but you have to at least try and win her back. Quote
jeppo Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 i no im alredy prepd for the worse i no what i did was rong it was built up tenshion nd the drink let it out i no i scerd her but I've promisd id never scer her agen and she noes id never hurt her Quote
SCOTTIX Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 exactly mate was with my girl 4 & 1/2years and broke up last year it killed me i was in depression the whack ,went through 3-4 other relationships but cudnt get them to work because i cudnt move on and in november she found me again and we decided to giv it another go, basicaly mate jus dont look back keep moving forward i took the break up on the chin after 2 months as i knew we had to move on sumthings jus arent ment to be but if she loves u she wil get u backalso if your gona enjoy the free lifestyle for a few munth dont go blowing it because the chance to try again maybe round the corner so do go too wild. Quote
jeppo Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 i cudnet anyway she means to much to me no one comes close Quote
STARLET88 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 we av all that that before mate... serious be open minded !! Quote
jeppo Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 im trying to be just dont want to do anything to reck it any more and wud sleeping with someone els rele make me feel beter Quote
Nanglebadger Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 @ Micky - nah man, i just try to do for folks on here what i'd hope they'd do for me if the shoe was on the other foot. breakups f**kin SUUUUUUUUUUCK and i hate to see anyone, let alone a member of our UKSC family, going through a rough time.Jeppo, my thoughts are with u dude, i hope today is a better day for you man. Phil. Quote
Guest cheshireglanza Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 jeppo i no how it feels dude has im now single after 2 years off been with some one,when i posted it up on fb members off here were there to cheer me up and not to forget the phone sex markoos had with me last night Quote
jeppo Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 yeh things feel a lil beter evan tho shes not yet changed her mined if she dont change her mined well thats her loss because id say im a catch nd im giving her time to come to her senses but slowley feeling more and more like thers plenty more fish went to her nannas with her nan asked what id dun to my arm so we spoke about it nd she just made herself look like an absaute heartles fuck infront of the 1 bit of dicent family she has lol Quote
Sparky Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 Time is the best healer mate Sorry to hear about it but break up happens, as they say all good things come to and end and everything happens for a reason, just need to concentrate on the future now and the next bitch your gonna plough Quote
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