bud, i havnt read any replies, so sorry if its been said before. but really if shes told you she loves this guy, admitted (not in so many words) that you were the rebound, and now doesnt believe you when you are telling the truth, then leave it be. you care so much, and she is just plain blind and cant see it, so if she comes running back, be kind, be the best mate, but DONT, whatever you do, DONT fall for her again, because (and this has happened to me) she will think you only did it so you could worm your way back into her life. start a-frash with someone else, search for love again, and care for this Debbie, but dont fall for her, it just wont work out the way you want it to. sure welcome her with open arms, let her cry over your shoulder, but just dont climb into bed with her.