without reading through the entire thread........ speaking on behalf of boys here girls are a wierd species they both you and i will never understand, my advice dont get in a relp untill your realy ready to settle down, was with my ex from being 10-16 6 years then on day she just ignored me and sed its over, 1 week later she was with a "lad mate" i allways trusted her with :@ my problem is im too trusting, the lass im with could be out with a lad come home tell me she got stuck at work and ide bileave it, way to trustin bin with the gf now for like 3 1/2 years and she doesnt seem the type to cheat, or is it me bin trusting ?????