The good guys always lose man Plus she is kinda playing with your feelings, its like if you want to be together with a girl (bf/gf) its best not to become best friends, I think thats what she thinks you are and accepts that. In an ideal world you guys should really be together man by the sounds of it, you only live once so dont lose this chance if you really want to be with her or regret it. Do you reckon she is your soul mate? I know its a tricky situation and hopefully she realises it soon!!! Good luck with everything mate, wish you all the best. I've been single for ages and when the time comes I hope to meet someone special and nice, in the meantime I need to make sure I can support myself and be independent etc. Peace Joz