awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww dude no way! i am honestly gutted for you! i cant say anything that Jay hasn't already said, he is spot on! get anything and everything off that u possibly can and stash it somewhere safe! the most important thing is that u and the mrs walked away dude! if he's trying to blame you it makes me think he knows he was in thr wrong and is trying to shy away from responsibility! if the cops dont already know, u may even consider reporting it for information purposes. take care man and anything UKSC can do to help, we are here man! also....pics of your wife????????????????????? hehe thought that might cheer u up! Phil.