I dont hate you, I dont know you. I'm not judgemental,I've not questioned anyones decision and I like this forum too, I dont mind alittle banter, but after tring to help jo and then get judged myself as of to whom I call friends is out of order, if i do have a problem about this in the future i'll let you know, but by no means do I want anyone to fight my battles for me. I'm old enough and ugly enough to look after myself.