i was with mine for 4 years big house 2 cars. started to look to buy the house and had picked up engagement ring to suprise her and then she just walked out one day and said she wanted space no reasoning or explanations. 8months later we started to talk again properly n she got knocked up on a one night stand decided shes keeping it. but hes getting made homeless at end of month so will be 5 months pregant and homeless and now she keeps inviting me round for dinner and to go out to the cinema and all that and am just like eh? naaaaah ill pass. first few months where brutal but long as you keep