Hmm Briggers mate even though the CAP pad is quite harsh, I can pull away fairly quietly without revving over 3k! Maybe yours just needs to bed in, but when I'm reversing into a space I do really have to rev it as my car loves stalling in reverse (don't ask me why, if you don't keep the revs well up it stalls) and I have set off quite a few car alarms as my exhaust is loud (and out the front). But no ones every said anything to me or come over, they've just ignored it lol. But yeah man that sucks! What a prick!