thing is its annoying when you dont get your stuff, but people do have lives and problems occur, its not allways a straight cut rip off. not defending anyone, just saying, try and be a little understanding under extreme circumstances. also, never ever send money as a gift on paypal when buying goods, your waving your insurance good buy, buying second hand goods from someone far away is a risk, dont be silly enough to believe someone youve talked to on the internet is 'a really nice guy, he wouldnt rip me off', allways send money under goods, gives you something to fall back on.