really do not understand that first bit and yh need abit of wd40! try plan a day? depends what your price bracket is.... you would spend the day with her doing something ( for me it would so be the zoo! ) but she may not be as childish as me haha then take her shopping to get something she wants or book her for a couple hours into a spa with a mate and u could either have a meal with just the two of you or arrange a surprise meal and drinks with you and her mates/ family there. then when you get home give her whatever she wants... just flowing ideads here lol