It what ya do if ya wanna be a scene kid, cut the weight out and add more weight in with a show cage and towing eyes that will never be used because the car will never see a track !! Everyone thats cool is doin it.
I take it this is the one Aamir is on about, i cant seem to find it on ebay myself now. http://www.ukstarletowners.com/topic/69250-forged-livesports-tdo4-glanza-v/ Doesnt exactly help the OP if its not for sale anymore, ask Aamir lol.
You can get the banjo bolts off any trader on here, i got them recently with lines from Zisco. There should be a diagram for the EWG & EBC vac lines floating around the tech section somewhere.
Decat braces normally bolt to the gearbox where it meets the block, theres two holes, one above another. The standard banjo bolt off the oil filter housing and the standard one off the TD04 For 3, are you running an EBC or not ?