thats women for ya dude. its always difficult after a long time. its only worse when ya dont accept it and end up on for 2 weeks and split up for a few then back on again. once a relationships gone it usualy fucked. think of it like the oil light on your car lol. my ex decided we should split up after 3 n a half years as she was bored of her same old routine life and wanted change so i got chucked and guess what. new bf thats got kids and she still works in the same bloody place. soo yeh there a comlpicated thing. ul be aight Russell