Dont text or ring her for a few days, my bet is you get a phonecall or text ;) If that fails then theres always......... http://uk.match.com/matchuk/index.aspx All i will say is get her out of your head for a bit and it will be easier, my ex really fucked with my head when we split up and i took months to get it sorted out in my head! Was not a nice person to be around, it's a good thing i kill things daily so i got it out of my system! She got fucked over by her new bloke and guess who's sending me texts and calls now Her cousin and me are like you 2 and we would make a brilliant couple but it's her cousin and we would both feel odd about it. Her cousin is a really good mate who comes to me for help, advice and a shoulder to cry on so i think thats the approach you should take. For get a relationship and concentrate on a friendship. ;)