Well, this is the approach I have taken as admin on this and the previous site I was admin on for the last 5 or 6 years, and 9 times out of 10 it has worked. If I hit the ban hammer to soon, we loose any means of communication.
fair enough it isnt perfect, but its the approach I've taken, and on the whole it has worked. But we can't protect every single person from being scammed ALL the time. there is only so much we can do, and IMO, its the safest its been RIGHT NOW than it ever has before. But obviously no approach is perfect. Cunts will still scam and sadly people will still send it as a gift or wiat more than 30 days before submitting a claim. We cant cover all eventualities.
Just my 2p having been admin for longer than I care to bother to think about anymore as its fucking depressing.
Phil.