My boyfriend owns a starlet.. and he hasn't ditched me yet. Probably because I bought a starlet too ! In all fairness, I can be a needy bitch sometimes, and want to see him all the time etc. But he still sees his mates and I see mine occasionally. We do a lot together.. whether it be spending just our time together or him fixing his car etc/doing other car bits(fixing mine) Sometimes I do feel he loves his car more than me.. but recently I love my car more also ;)! Pretty much, you need to find a happy medium ? Find something that you both agree on.. Make sure you still show you care.. that you need time away, with mates/cars.. If you just let it all evolve - shit will hit the fan and maybe cause an uproar.. ! If you don't see her all the time, then when you do see her, do something special or worthwhile! I'm moving 30 miles away from my boyfriend so will probably see him less but it will give me chance to find new stuff to do, and he'll do his stuff. At the end of the day, he still wants and gets his cuddles as well as showing his car and mates some attention... don't you aaddzz123 !